There are many titles for Dommes. They can be called Mistress, Miss, Madame, Ma’am, Lady, Queen, Princess, Daddy, Mommy or a name they’ve invented themselves. So subs, it’s important that you use the correct title when addressing them. Whether you’re trying to engage with them on social media or contacting…
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I love a Dominant who’s multi-layered in her approach. A bad-ass bitch who commands a room but also knows about the importance of aftercare and how to actually have a conversation. BDSM is so much more than just chains and whips and “torturing” a sub for the pleasure of both…
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Here Kitty, Kitty! When a potential submissive asked if I had seen Kitty Brat’s profile, I admitted that I had not. Then they sent me the link and I realized what I had been missing out on! I love a cute kitty cat, and even more so, I love a…
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Andrew was coming to the end of his three-week secondment to the tights department at Barrington’s department store. He dreaded having to return to the shoe department. It wasn’t that he was unhappy there, it just didn’t give him the same joy that hosiery did. And he was really good…
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There’s a lot to learn if you’re getting into findom. One of the most important things is that most payment methods are NOT sex worker friendly. For example, I constantly see findommes advertise that they accept PayPal and then post angrily about PayPal closing their account while keeping their money.…
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There’s a stigma about the Financial Domination fetish and it’s always been very concerning to Me. How a Financial Dominatrix takes money and a financial submissive gives money should only be the business of those involved in the transaction. Yep. I said it. Now let’s go deeper… I love following…
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There’s an unspoken fetish in the BDSM community that’s equal parts sadistic, bestial and alluring. This dark kink’s called female cannablism – “Femcan” for short – and it’s more popular than people think. Many of the forums Femcan’s featured on, only exist in the shadier parts of the Internet. These…
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Have you ever noticed when talking to submissive men, they generally seem to have really successful personal lives? At least the genuine ones do. And when I say genuine, I mean they actually want to serve and don’t try to ‘top from the bottom’. It’s actually common that men in…
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Like most femdommes, I talk a lot about female supremacy. But is that all for show, you may be wondering? Do I really believe the world should be run along matriarchal lines? Or is it just because some men find fantasizing about women in control hot, and I’m playing into…
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Soft and delicate features can be misleading. When you see a face with a gentle smile and warm brown eyes, it’s easy to think they must be an angel. Sometimes this is true. But sometimes, behind that beautifully angelic face, is a sexy sadist. Think about that the next time…
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“I’m putting you in the hosiery section tomorrow for a few weeks, Andrew.” Andrew had worked selling shoes in Barrington’s for seven years. A large department store, Barrington’s had a bit of everything. He liked his job. The pay wasn’t great, but his colleagues were friendly and the customers were…
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Sometimes while scrolling through your timeline you come across content that is just DELICIOUS! That just happened to me and I am literally salivating looking through this content! The content I’m talking about is the mouth-watering output from Kandy K! Not only is she breathtakingly beautiful, her content is creative,…
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“I have no limits, Mistress!” A phrase every Domme hears on a regular basis. But contrary to what you might think, we don’t cackle with delight and immediately plan a plethora of kinky delights. Because it’s a lie. Everyone has limits. If you think you don’t, you probably just haven’t…
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There’s no shame in being insecure. We all deal with our own insecurities every day. The most important thing is to address it so it doesn’t become an obstacle on your journey to reaching your goals. Especially if you’re a social media Dominatrix. In the age of social media, people…
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At FFFBuzz.com, we’ve talked about Pet Play before. The Chateau is a wonderful house full of women who love to partake in burlesque and kitten play. But what I’m going to talk about is something a little different. This particular kink isn’t just beautiful people (I’m including everyone in that…
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***Craigslist posting*****w4m- Need to pee! (H—- Square)** “My bladder is bursting. Can I hold it long enough for you to be my toilet? Send me a pic of you, clothed, holding something with today’s date. You must host. You will receive only.” Ok, so my bladder isn’t quite bursting yet,…
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Building a full fetish or BDSM wardrobe is expensive. When you first decide to go into domination or fetish work, you’re going to need some staples. You’ll need a few sexy items for cam work, clip-making, or real-time sessions and you won’t want to invest in too much latex or…
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We grow up with so many different influences. Be it our families, friends or characters from pop culture. Watching television shows and movies, I generally preferred the female characters, but only if they were badass and strong-willed! In the book – and later the film – ‘Matilda’, the protagonist was…
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BDSM should be accessible to everyone and it shouldn’t cost an arm and a leg. Unfortunately, BDSM equipment is expensive. That’s a major deterrent to many that don’t have the budget for it. But what is BDSM if not creativity put into action? So let’s get creative and look for…
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The traveller stepped off his ship. Observing his surroundings, he noticed he only women. There were no men anywhere in sight. “How exciting,” he thought. “Perhaps this is a matriarchal society.” He extended a warm hand to a woman who appeared to be the most senior, only for the gesture…
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