A to Z of fetishes: B is for balloons, bathroom denial and bondage

a to z of fetishes b

Bagging

Suffocation using a (mostly or always) clear bag over someone’s head, as a turn on. (Please only do with care and with people with experience)

Ball busting

Ball busting could involve kicking, slapping, squeezing or anything else that involves torturing testicles.

Female kneeing a male in the balls

Ball gag

A ball gag fits behind the teeth, and the straps go around the head to hold it in place. It renders the wearer’s speech unintelligible, but it is often used more for humiliation than silence

Woman wearing a ball gag in her mouth

Balloon fetish

‘Looners’ get their kicks from inflating, popping or rubbing themselves against balloons.

Bastinado

It’s the act of having the soles of your feet whipped or beaten with a crop or whip.

Bathroom denial

It’s where a dominant partner won’t let you answer the call of nature until they decide you can.

Male and female desperate to use the bathroom

Bathysadism

Where sadists get off on inflicting pain, bathysadists get off on imagining it: they’re very unlikely to try to hurt anybody in real life. And if they do, they’re likely to feel really bad about it.

Belonephilia

It’s the sexual interest in sharp objects such as pins, needles, broken glass, razor blades and other potentially painful items.

Biastophilia

Arousal from assaulting someone without consent. That assault needn’t be sexual, but the perpetrator gets a sexual thrill from it. People with this fetish are advised to seek professional help.

Blackmail Fantasy

To use secret information for the submissive and using that information to blackmail the submissive to either pay or to humiliate a submissive

Blastolagnia

Is a fetish for adolescent women that may be expressed in role play or pornography – the cliche of older women in school uniforms – or in relationships with young women who are just past the age of consent. Moving beyond fantasy or role play is a world of pain and prison.

Woman dressed in a school uniform licking a lollipop

Blindfolds

Removing your sight can heighten your other senses, like a touch. It’s exciting not knowing where or what you will be touched with next. Great way to introduce sensation play.

Blood play

Blood play can involve extracting blood from a partner with teeth or a blade. And while participants say it’s extraordinary powerful, it’s also extraordinarily dangerous. It’s all too easy to nick a vein, and many diseases such as hepatitis and HIV are blood-borne. This isn’t something to do lightly or with someone you don’t trust 1,000%.

Body worship

Body worship means being attracted to and attending to a specific part of someone’s body – for example, their foot – or their entire body.

Body Piercing

Just the look of another person with piercings might be enough to turn them on, but it can also be the feeling of the cold metallic object rubbing against their body that spikes their adrenaline like nothing else.

Woman with several ear piercings

Brachioproctism

When you get sexual pleasure from the slow insertion of a body part other than a penis into your rectum. That part is usually a hand, fist or arm, but it could be a foot.

Breath Play

The intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for the purposes of sexual arousal.

Bondage / BDSM

BDSM – bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism – is a catch-all term for all kinds of consensual fetish play.

Muscled male model with ropes around his body

Brassierolagnia

When somebody’s more turned on by the bra than the breasts it frames so beautifully.

Brats

When a Domme or a sub is bratty in nature and will always get their own way.

Bukkake

In the 1980s, Japanese pornography had to pixelate genitals, so pornographers looked for alternative ways to show sex acts. They turned their attention, and the male performers’ penises, towards the actresses’ faces.

Burping fetish

It’s sexual desire from seeing, or more importantly hearing, somebody burp.

Some references made from Metro.co.uk A-Z

Have we missed your favourite fetish? Comment below and we will be sure to add it.

Written exclusively for Female Fetish Federation

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Videos