Don’t assume that because many Dommes enjoy being called Mistress that it is the same for all of us. As with everything, we are individuals that have our own particular likes and dislikes. I cannot say it often enough that you should do your research before contacting a Pro Domme.…
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What is pegging? Anal play has existed as long as sex has, but the term pegging was first used by the popular sex advice columnist Dan Savage in 2001 to describe when a cis-gendered female penetrates a cis-gendered male anally with a strap-on dildo. Thanks to more widespread sex education,…
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There are some common misconceptions about professional Domme s. People seem to think that I live in an alternate reality where I don’t need to wait in line at the post office when I have to ship a package off. Others think that I wake up dressed in leather and…
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BDSM is full of various s-types. What’s an s-type? I’m glad you asked. In a BDSM relationship, the dominant person (or top) is the one that takes the power, authority or control. This control is always given with the consent of everyone involved. The power exchange can last a few…
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Often when I’m speaking to people at munches, particularly the newbies, they’ll mention the high cost of specialized gear. It’s true that we can spend hundreds of dollars on a single whip or flogger, let alone a piece of furniture adapted to play. My response is often the same: look…
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