Lee’s phone pinged with a message from ‘The Boss‘. It was his nickname for his partner, Andrea. “Having drinks with the girls, will be back at 8:30. Love you.” He breathed a sigh of relief. That gave him plenty of time to get dinner ready. He hated commuting. The trains…
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Every Domme has dealt with time-consuming subs. The kind that want to check in with you multiple times daily, starting when they wake up and ending when they go to bed. Sometimes they even message you while you’re asleep. Boys, if you find yourself acting like this, check yourself. No…
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Civilians are always appropriating the sex work and BDSM aesthetic to sell their music or clothing. It makes real sex workers mad. And now we hear that actress Bella Thorne has broken records for OnlyFans for making $1 million in 24 hours. Frankly, I find it repulsive. I’m tired of…
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There are many titles for Dommes. They can be called Mistress, Miss, Madame, Ma’am, Lady, Queen, Princess, Daddy, Mommy or a name they’ve invented themselves. So subs, it’s important that you use the correct title when addressing them. Whether you’re trying to engage with them on social media or contacting…
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Andrew was coming to the end of his three-week secondment to the tights department at Barrington’s department store. He dreaded having to return to the shoe department. It wasn’t that he was unhappy there, it just didn’t give him the same joy that hosiery did. And he was really good…
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There’s a lot to learn if you’re getting into findom. One of the most important things is that most payment methods are NOT sex worker friendly. For example, I constantly see findommes advertise that they accept PayPal and then post angrily about PayPal closing their account while keeping their money.…
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Like most femdommes, I talk a lot about female supremacy. But is that all for show, you may be wondering? Do I really believe the world should be run along matriarchal lines? Or is it just because some men find fantasizing about women in control hot, and I’m playing into…
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“I’m putting you in the hosiery section tomorrow for a few weeks, Andrew.” Andrew had worked selling shoes in Barrington’s for seven years. A large department store, Barrington’s had a bit of everything. He liked his job. The pay wasn’t great, but his colleagues were friendly and the customers were…
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“I have no limits, Mistress!” A phrase every Domme hears on a regular basis. But contrary to what you might think, we don’t cackle with delight and immediately plan a plethora of kinky delights. Because it’s a lie. Everyone has limits. If you think you don’t, you probably just haven’t…
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The traveller stepped off his ship. Observing his surroundings, he noticed he only women. There were no men anywhere in sight. “How exciting,” he thought. “Perhaps this is a matriarchal society.” He extended a warm hand to a woman who appeared to be the most senior, only for the gesture…
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In these dark days of coronavirus, we all need a good giggle. Thankfully, dominatrix Lady Vi has a whopper to share with the world. Walmart – yes, that Walmart – is now selling a queening chair. Let that sink in for a minute. Just when you thought 2020 couldn’t get…
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I have my favourite fetishes. No matter how often I administer CBT, or dish out SCH, I never grow tired of them. Equally, there are some fetishes I’ll never touch. It doesn’t matter how much I’m offered for scat sessions, I’m not going there. I’ll leave that for the women…
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Congratulations – you’ve just discovered the wonderful world of Femdom, and you like the idea of becoming an online domme yourself. It seems like a great way to make money. Get paid for tormenting men? Yes please! Sign me up! But if you’re really serious about femdom, and you want…
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One of the more disagreeable aspects of the femdom scene is whorephobia. It’s bad enough that civilians look down on sex workers; we don’t need to be doing the same to one another. Yet unfortunately it’s not unknown to see attitudes that I’d expect from people outside the world of…
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