Whether you’re new to the BDSM and kink scene or you’ve been around for years, it’s always an exciting prospect to meet up with others that share the same interests as you. At the same time, it can be a nerve-wracking experience putting yourself out there, especially if you don’t…
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When you first started looking into the world of BDSM and Domination what kind of female images did you see? I know I saw women in stunning outfits (normally leather or latex) in a very strong, controlling pose and they were normally brandishing a whip. This was the “ultimate ideal”…
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In the past, we’ve written articles about aftercare and the mental elements involved in recovering from a BDSM session. But what of the physical side of things? The chances are that if you habitually engage in percussion play, as I’m more than certain a good few of you do, that…
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We’ve all called out for more acceptance of the BDSM and kink scene in conventional society. While playing with the “taboo” is always fun, there’s a massive stigma and a lot of kink-shaming going on in regular society. We’ve even seen cases where women get told “they were asking for…
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Okay, so if you’re reading this, I’m willing to wager that you’ve a strong grip on what the mash-up acronym ‘BDSM, stands for, and what it entails as a practice. But, what about the history of it. How long have we been using powerplay in the bedroom? When did torture…
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The Dom/me-Sub relationship is not one commonly understood outside of the kink scene, with the term “subspace” being even less widely known. The issue is that some (normally inexperienced) Dom/mes and Subs who haven’t done their research don’t fully understand subspace and how the Sub can potentially be impaired during/after…
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