You finally decided that it is time to turn your kinky fantasy into reality (I couldn’t be happier for you!) Next step: find someone willing to be your playmate. That can be a little challenging. Why? because sharing a kinky fantasy with someone, in detail, may feel a little uncomfortable.…
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Being the perfect dominatrix is about exuding dominance and providing your clients and submissives with an excellent BDSM experience. To give your clients the session of their dreams, check out the qualities that do make you a good Domme, and the qualities that don’t so much…. Qualities that do make you a…
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I love Halloween. It’s spooky season and for a lot of people it brings out their naughty side. We dress up, we role play as someone else, and a lot of people use Halloween as an excuse to explore a fetish they’ve always been curious about. Halloween is this weekend…
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When I got my first sex toy I was like a kid on Christmas! I was so excited! I took it out of the packaging immediately (I received it via courier) and turned it on to see all the vibration settings. It was a cute little turquoise wand, small enough…
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Yes people, watching “Bonding”, “Cam” or “Fifty Shades of Grey” on Netflix won’t suddenly make you a Dominatrix or fully fledged submissive. BDSM is much more complicated than that and involves an understanding of the human psychology. 1. So here’s what BDSM actually stands for: Firstly BDSM stands for bondage…
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BDSM is full of various s-types. What’s an s-type? I’m glad you asked. In a BDSM relationship, the dominant person (or top) is the one that takes the power, authority or control. This control is always given with the consent of everyone involved. The power exchange can last a few…
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Lee’s phone pinged with a message from ‘The Boss‘. It was his nickname for his partner, Andrea. “Having drinks with the girls, will be back at 8:30. Love you.” He breathed a sigh of relief. That gave him plenty of time to get dinner ready. He hated commuting. The trains…
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By now you’ve read parts 1, 2, and 3 of the “The Beginners Guide to BDSM” series and you know how to prepare for a session. I am particularly fond of the phrase “if you fail to prepare, you’re preparing to fail” when it comes to BDSM, so I figured…
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This seems like a no-brainer but it’s important to cover all bases. Hygiene and health are vital when it comes to BDSM. Everyone wants to have a wild, naughty play time but they also want to finish and feel that they were safe and healthy. Personally, I prefer my play…
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Welcome back to “The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. Last week I dropped part one of this series and I talked about the importance of Safe Words and Safe Actions. Great place to start! So now, you and your partner (romantic or otherwise) have to decided to explore the world of…
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The message from his mistress was brief. “1300 High Creek Road. 10pm.” Allan had no idea what she had in mind. He never did. There seemed to be no limit to her imagination and the experiences she dreamed up for him. They had known each other for four years –…
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So… BDSM. You’ve heard the term, you’ve watched 50 Shades of Grey and you’re intrigued. You should be. BDSM is FUN if you’re into it. But what do you need to know to get the most out of this life-altering experience? A lot. But don’t worry, that’s what The Beginner’s…
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“I have no limits, Mistress!” A phrase every Domme hears on a regular basis. But contrary to what you might think, we don’t cackle with delight and immediately plan a plethora of kinky delights. Because it’s a lie. Everyone has limits. If you think you don’t, you probably just haven’t…
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Building a full fetish or BDSM wardrobe is expensive. When you first decide to go into domination or fetish work, you’re going to need some staples. You’ll need a few sexy items for cam work, clip-making, or real-time sessions and you won’t want to invest in too much latex or…
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We grow up with so many different influences. Be it our families, friends or characters from pop culture. Watching television shows and movies, I generally preferred the female characters, but only if they were badass and strong-willed! In the book – and later the film – ‘Matilda’, the protagonist was…
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BDSM should be accessible to everyone and it shouldn’t cost an arm and a leg. Unfortunately, BDSM equipment is expensive. That’s a major deterrent to many that don’t have the budget for it. But what is BDSM if not creativity put into action? So let’s get creative and look for…
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The traveller stepped off his ship. Observing his surroundings, he noticed he only women. There were no men anywhere in sight. “How exciting,” he thought. “Perhaps this is a matriarchal society.” He extended a warm hand to a woman who appeared to be the most senior, only for the gesture…
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This absolute powerhouse of a woman is equally intimidating as she is breathtaking! Initially, I was struck by her beauty when I saw her profile. Then I spoke to her and watched her video describing why she’s the Mistress most Subs dream of. Now I totally get it! Clearly a…
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In these dark days of coronavirus, we all need a good giggle. Thankfully, dominatrix Lady Vi has a whopper to share with the world. Walmart – yes, that Walmart – is now selling a queening chair. Let that sink in for a minute. Just when you thought 2020 couldn’t get…
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In the epoch of Covid‐19, we’ve had to rethink how we manage connections, interactions and business in every day life. The world of BDSM is no exception. Dommes have found themselves at a crossroads – adapt to the new normal or stick with what’s worked. But with uncertainty mounting every…
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