Financial domination should be fun – ditch the guilt and enjoy sending!

Do you feel guilty about being turned on by financial domination? Don’t. As long as you’re taking care of your own basic needs and those of your family, if you have one, it’s fine. Safe, sane, and consensual is the key. I’m not a Catholic, so haven’t been raised to feel guilty. But it’s always seemed such a useless emotion to me. What’s the sense in torturing yourself?

A lot of people, if they’re aware of findom, think it wrong to spend money in this way, especially when large sums are involved. But let’s put it in perspective. Would you think it ok to spend £30k on a wedding (the average cost in the UK)? Or £5k on a holiday? Concert tickets cost upwards of £100 these days, and following your favourite football team can be a very expensive hobby. Yet who feels guilty about those? The answer lies in their socially acceptable nature, and why should you let society make you feel guilty because you get your kicks in spending your money another way?

There’s really nothing wrong with giving your money to a findomme, as long as you’re coming from a psychologically healthy place. Financial domination should be fun. Think of the rush when you hit ‘Send’. Why deny yourself that pleasure? In fact, I’d argue that by giving your money to women you’re redressing the wrongs of centuries. Men have always controlled money, and even now there’s still a gender pay imbalance.

Findom feels good if you let it, and who doesn’t want to feel good? And the best thing is that you can continue to enjoy that feeling of positivity, by giving more to your Domme. You can even gain a sense of purpose by knowing that you’re working hard for Her. In fact, you’re building something more valuable than you’ll ever gain from blowing your money on tat from large corporations. You have the chance to make another person very happy. A good D/s relationship will last longer than weddings and iPhones. As long as you can afford findom, it’s all well and good.

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