Free Sex Is “OK”, Taking Money for Sex Is “OK”, but Taking Money for No Sex Through Financial Domination Is “Wrong”?

woman taking money from man

There’s a stigma about the Financial Domination fetish and it’s always been very concerning to Me. How a Financial Dominatrix takes money and a financial submissive gives money should only be the business of those involved in the transaction.

Yep. I said it. Now let’s go deeper…

I love following SlumFlower – Chidera Eggerue – The award-winning author of “What A Time To Be Alone” and the creator of #SAGGYBOOBSMATTER. She’s a smart feminist that fully understands sex work.

So this tweet from her got Me thinking about my own life:

It was an interesting take to say the least but one that begs the question; why do people have a hard time accepting that women take money from men for the same things they give away for free? In this era, time, attention and sex can now be seen as commodities.

Why does it matter?

Personally, I’d rather not be emotionally manipulated into situations by men because of their sense of entitlement. Men often believe women should give them everything. Even their own sanity.

This is one of the reasons I love the Financial Domination fetish so much.

When I wrote this I was in a cottage on a farm in the south of England and some good boys have made sure I was able to spend a whole month here with my three little doggies. I was relaxed, stress free, eating well, enjoying the hills and the bay, and I’m still taking money from men so I can continue this lifestyle.

Cottage in Cornwall where I practice Financial Domination.
My hired cottage in Cornwall

In the same breath, it’s also almost impossible for Me to say, “I do this fully clothed, without sleeping with a guy” without someone becoming vindictive or defensive.

“Just because I sleep with men for money, doesn’t mean you’re better than me!”

“How degrading for the man that you would do that to him!”

“Don’t you have any self respect?!”

I’ve heard it all. Do people not understand how conditioned we are as a society to believe that everything is an exchange? That men feel entitled to a woman’s body or time without her saying what she wants? That everything we do should have some kind of value?

“If I give you this money, I should get something in return”.

If someone’s going to say that to me, then I have the power to say “no, I don’t have to do that to get what I want and deserve.”

Financial domination is for both of us

The value of financial domination and taking money from men is a simple exchange. I take money from him and he says thank you. He is selfless, he is of use, and he doesn’t have to worry about how to please Me when I only want one thing.

I will financially dominate you.
£1000 cash returned by a submissive gentleman, just to be able to have dinner with me

So if I told you that for seven years I’ve had men give Me six-figure sums and I’ve never had to beg or give a part of myself away for any of it, (maybe in extreme cases a little bit of sanity if a boy is difficult to deal with), what would you think? It shouldn’t make you mad. It should make you say “Hell yeah, good for you, girl! Imma get that bag too!”

I shouldn’t have to justify my actions in the same way you shouldn’t have to justify yours. Money is hard to come by and easy to lose. Women are now taking and earning more in the hopes of equality, and it’s a battle we’re fighting every day. We’re in this together and no woman should come between another woman who’s simply trying to pay her bills and better herself.

With the rise of sites like OnlyFans and Patreon, Women earning from the other side of an office desk is to be celebrated.

Why should any of us have to work for “the man” when we can work for “the Woman”?

What did you think of this article? Do you understand Financial Domination? What do you like and dislike about it? Let us know in the comments below.

Written exclusively for Female Fetish Federation

4 responses to “Free Sex Is “OK”, Taking Money for Sex Is “OK”, but Taking Money for No Sex Through Financial Domination Is “Wrong”?”

  1. I give my Mistress money because I know I cannot please her sexually. Sending to her pleases her, this pleases me AND it means I can be a part of her world. We talk and she tells me about her day. I’m so lucky to be a part of her world.

  2. I’m into FinDom but I incorporate FemDom too. My cuck sends frequently because he knows he can’t satisfy me any other way and he’s into SPH. Sometimes he just sends “incase” if having sex and forgot to tell him.

  3. I really don’t understand financial domination. Why would I give my money away to get nothing in return but I respect the people that do it. Kudos.

  4. It baffles me too. I can only assume that it’s based on resentment. Personally, it makes me queasy to think of women trading sex for chores, when we’re well into the 21st century and men should be doing their fair share by now! Ugh! Give me a FLR all the way.

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