Stop complaining about deposits – Dommes require them for very good reasons

Most Dommes ask for deposits for sessions. Real-time femdom sessions have been sidelined by coronavirus, but as restrictions ease I’m seeing more Dommes start to resume them, with the appropriate safety measures. And as sure as Trump is a moron, we’ll undoubtedly see the resumption of complaints about having to pay a deposit as well.

Guys, deposits are required for two very good reasons: no-shows and timewasters. There are a lot of both in this line of work. Some guys get off on wasting a Domme’s time, making a booking with no intention of showing and trying for endless conversation. Asking for a deposit helps weed them out.

It also increases the likelihood that a sub will show, in order not to forfeit his deposit. Nerves are common in first-timers, which we understand. But we have to cover ourselves. We’ve spent time preparing equipment and outfits, money hiring a dungeon or equipping a space of our own, and if you get cold feet then we’ve lost hours of our day. And this isn’t the kind of business that can take walk-ins to fill that wasted slot. If you’re really not sure if you’re ready for a session, hold off on booking until you are.

But wait! you cry. What if she steals my deposit? Look, that isn’t very likely, especially with an established domme. She has built up a reputation and has no interest in trashing it by running off with your fifty quid. Her business flourishes on repeat custom, which she won’t get if she pockets deposits and doesn’t show for sessions. It’s simply not in her interests.

So, when a Domme asks for a deposit before she’ll see you, don’t quibble or try to negotiate. Respect her and her time. It is an essential part of securing a session with her, and that’s what you want, right?

Written exclusively for Female Fetish Federation

One response to “Stop complaining about deposits – Dommes require them for very good reasons”

  1. Yes yes yes!!! And the link to the blog post about timewasters is great! This speaks to me on so many levels!

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