Happy Holidays to all our kinky readers! We at FFFBuzz.com wish you, and all of yours a wonderful festive season. We know that this year it’s going to be a weird one. COVID-19 has meant that a lot of our holiday plans have been changed ten times over or halted…
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Tag: BDSM
The world of kink and fetish is filled with people from all sorts of cultures, ideals, and personalities. That’s what I love about it. It’s what I enjoy about this job too. I get to talk to so many wonderful and individual people within the community. Joyen is one such…
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I learned how to be a FinDomme firstly through social media, so I didn’t realise or know I was going to end up being part of the BDSM community. Money has always been My priority, and it still is now. It was never my intention to end up in it,…
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I love Halloween. It’s spooky season and for a lot of people it brings out their naughty side. We dress up, we role play as someone else, and a lot of people use Halloween as an excuse to explore a fetish they’ve always been curious about. Halloween is this weekend…
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Yes people, watching “Bonding”, “Cam” or “Fifty Shades of Grey” on Netflix won’t suddenly make you a Dominatrix or fully fledged submissive. BDSM is much more complicated than that and involves an understanding of the human psychology. 1. So here’s what BDSM actually stands for: Firstly BDSM stands for bondage…
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Last year I went viral when I was casually walking a slave in London. I’d engaged in public humiliation in the BDSM scene a few times before. I’d also been doing various similar things in the vanilla world for many years. To Me public humiliation is just a normal thing…
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Women as a whole deal with more prejudices than their male counterparts. Black Women in particular face more cultural misunderstandings, have far higher judgements and less support to succeed than Western women. It also applies to a Black FemDomme and FinDomme. So what can we learn about tenacity, competition, priorities…
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The participation in online FinDom has continued to see steady growth. With that, there’s also been an increase in Twitter FinDom scams of the Dominant Women involved. So why are FinDommes falling for fakery so easily? Social media promotes a life that’s rarely real Instagram influencers promote a lifestyle that…
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I was scrolling on My Twitter timeline when I saw this about BDSM slaves. It’s really important for Dommes to realise, even though we might not want to, that ultimately we are fetish providers. Submissives will come to us to explore their kinks and then disappear because they have lives…
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The online experience vs. the offline experience The pandemic has brought changes to virtually all industries in the world. That includes the sex work industry. More and more Dominatrices have been working online while new Female kinksters have discovered fetishes through documentaries and social media. Because of Covid-19, there’s been…
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BDSM is full of various s-types. What’s an s-type? I’m glad you asked. In a BDSM relationship, the dominant person (or top) is the one that takes the power, authority or control. This control is always given with the consent of everyone involved. The power exchange can last a few…
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By now you’ve read parts 1, 2, and 3 of the “The Beginners Guide to BDSM” series and you know how to prepare for a session. I am particularly fond of the phrase “if you fail to prepare, you’re preparing to fail” when it comes to BDSM, so I figured…
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“Drive.” “Huh?” “Drive!” Suddenly the whooshing and frothing of the automatic car wash machine became a distant echo. It happened so fast. He was just air drumming to the beats booming from the stereo, then within seconds, demands were being hurled his way. “I…” “…want you to slam the accelerator,…
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Every Domme has dealt with time-consuming subs. The kind that want to check in with you multiple times daily, starting when they wake up and ending when they go to bed. Sometimes they even message you while you’re asleep. Boys, if you find yourself acting like this, check yourself. No…
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This seems like a no-brainer but it’s important to cover all bases. Hygiene and health are vital when it comes to BDSM. Everyone wants to have a wild, naughty play time but they also want to finish and feel that they were safe and healthy. Personally, I prefer my play…
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Welcome back to “The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. Last week I dropped part one of this series and I talked about the importance of Safe Words and Safe Actions. Great place to start! So now, you and your partner (romantic or otherwise) have to decided to explore the world of…
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Some people just naturally ooze confidence and dominance. One look at them and you just know they’re the one who will be taking the lead. Madame Raven is definitely one of those people. One look at those dark, smouldering eyes and you’re under her spell. Pair this with her striking…
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Fan subscription platform OnlyFans has long since had a rocky relationship with sex workers, who feel that they were used to make the site popular and dropped as soon as it began to make an impact in the mainstream. This problem was exacerbated when actress Bella Thorne set up an…
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The message from his mistress was brief. “1300 High Creek Road. 10pm.” Allan had no idea what she had in mind. He never did. There seemed to be no limit to her imagination and the experiences she dreamed up for him. They had known each other for four years –…
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So… BDSM. You’ve heard the term, you’ve watched 50 Shades of Grey and you’re intrigued. You should be. BDSM is FUN if you’re into it. But what do you need to know to get the most out of this life-altering experience? A lot. But don’t worry, that’s what The Beginner’s…
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