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Last year I went viral when I was casually walking a slave in London. I’d engaged in public humiliation in the BDSM scene a few times before. I’d also been doing various similar things in the vanilla world for many years. To Me public humiliation is just a normal thing…
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Women as a whole deal with more prejudices than their male counterparts. Black Women in particular face more cultural misunderstandings, have far higher judgements and less support to succeed than Western women. It also applies to a Black FemDomme and FinDomme. So what can we learn about tenacity, competition, priorities…
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The participation in online FinDom has continued to see steady growth. With that, there’s also been an increase in Twitter FinDom scams of the Dominant Women involved. So why are FinDommes falling for fakery so easily? Social media promotes a life that’s rarely real Instagram influencers promote a lifestyle that…
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I was scrolling on My Twitter timeline when I saw this about BDSM slaves. It’s really important for Dommes to realise, even though we might not want to, that ultimately we are fetish providers. Submissives will come to us to explore their kinks and then disappear because they have lives…
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Goddess Reina Rodriguez

A relationship between a Dominant and a Submissive is so much more than just sissification, spanking, or saying “Fuck you! Pay Me!”. Yes, people can have one-off sessions, where they should still work on having a connection and chemistry but it’s not the same as building a relationship. For longer…
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BDSM is full of various s-types. What’s an s-type? I’m glad you asked. In a BDSM relationship, the dominant person (or top) is the one that takes the power, authority or control. This control is always given with the consent of everyone involved. The power exchange can last a few…
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Lee’s phone pinged with a message from ‘The Boss‘. It was his nickname for his partner, Andrea. “Having drinks with the girls, will be back at 8:30. Love you.” He breathed a sigh of relief. That gave him plenty of time to get dinner ready. He hated commuting. The trains…
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Queen Semira

What do you imagine when you think of a Queen? Let me take a guess. I’m sure you’re picturing an elegant, statuesque woman who carries herself with grace and poise. She’s beautiful and knows how to rule over her loyal subjects. This beauty rules over her subjects with an elegance…
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Every Domme has dealt with time-consuming subs. The kind that want to check in with you multiple times daily, starting when they wake up and ending when they go to bed. Sometimes they even message you while you’re asleep. Boys, if you find yourself acting like this, check yourself. No…
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When you think about Ireland, you think of a small, quaint, country where everyone is cheerful and welcoming. It’s also easy to think that every Irish woman is a “good little Catholic girl”. Well, there are Irish people that fit into that mold, but not everyone. And even those who…
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Mistress Maggie

BDSM can strengthen a relationship in so many ways. For some it can create a whole different level of intimacy and strengthen trust between those involved. For others, it can be cathartic (especially in the case of role reversal). I’ve mentioned before about how the kink world has been great…
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The world of kink is an unusual one. While it’s becoming SLIGHTLY less underground, it’s still seen as taboo. It’s almost like being in a secret society (in my opinion the most fun secret society in the world)! So, I love when people stumble across kink and BDSM in the…
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Madame Margherite Banner

You may recognise this amazing person from our discussion on Race Play and the taboo that comes with it. Madame Margherite has a wealth of knowledge and experience with race play and many other kinks, especially animal and pet play. The best part is she loves to share the knowledge…
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Inanna Justice

When someone mentions Paris, what do you think of? The Eiffel Tower? The Louvre? Good food? Maybe even romance? Well I have something new for you to add to that list. From now on, when you think of Paris, you’ll think of Inanna Justice. Originally from the United States, Inanna…
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