Contrary to popular belief, fetishes are quite common and exploring them via phone sex is also common too. Voyeurism and some of the other most common fetishes affect over 15% of the population, according to some studies’ findings. When considering all the fetishes out there, the percentage of people who…
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This is an article I’m really excited to write about. I LOVE pegging. Any chance I can get, I will. My first encounter with pegging was when my fella arrived back to our appointment one New Years Day after going on a hungover adventure by himself. I remember him walking…
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The BDSM and Fetish scene can be something of beauty. There is an art to each scene. But what is amazing is when people fully immerse themselves the fetish as an art form. Cynth Icorn is one of these people. Their work is really something of beauty. I never thought…
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Some kinks can be seen as taboo. We’ve talked about risqué kinks before such as race and religious play. Taboo kinks are something that people on the outside looking in can misconstrue. We’ve seen in the interview Miss Foxx held with many amazing other Dommes, that these kinks, while taboo…
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One thing I love about the kink and BDSM scene is the diversity within it. No two people in the scene are the same. They may enjoy the same kinks and fetishes, but they’ll never enjoy them in the same way. I find that truly fascinating. We can learn so…
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Being the perfect dominatrix is about exuding dominance and providing your clients and submissives with an excellent BDSM experience. To give your clients the session of their dreams, check out the qualities that do make you a good Domme, and the qualities that don’t so much…. Qualities that do make you a…
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Everyone knows that using condoms helps to protect you during sex. They’re not just to stop you getting pregnant. Condoms protect you from a massive range of STIs and STDs. You should always use a condom when engaging in sexual interactions with a new partner or if you’re not in…
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To anyone who enjoys the scent of lavender you’ll know that it’s soothing and relaxing. It’s fragrant but not in an overpowering sense. Lavender is one of those scents that as soon as you breath it in you feel at ease, as if a weight has been taken off your…
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I love Halloween. It’s spooky season and for a lot of people it brings out their naughty side. We dress up, we role play as someone else, and a lot of people use Halloween as an excuse to explore a fetish they’ve always been curious about. Halloween is this weekend…
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Yes people, watching “Bonding”, “Cam” or “Fifty Shades of Grey” on Netflix won’t suddenly make you a Dominatrix or fully fledged submissive. BDSM is much more complicated than that and involves an understanding of the human psychology. 1. So here’s what BDSM actually stands for: Firstly BDSM stands for bondage…
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There’s something so delicious about multiple fetishes intertwining to create one amazing experience. A scene that features one fetish is great. Two, amazing! But three or more…Mmmmmmm! Am I greedy? Maybe. But it also may just be that when I find the perfect mix of different fetishes and kinks together…
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BDSM is full of various s-types. What’s an s-type? I’m glad you asked. In a BDSM relationship, the dominant person (or top) is the one that takes the power, authority or control. This control is always given with the consent of everyone involved. The power exchange can last a few…
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Lee’s phone pinged with a message from ‘The Boss‘. It was his nickname for his partner, Andrea. “Having drinks with the girls, will be back at 8:30. Love you.” He breathed a sigh of relief. That gave him plenty of time to get dinner ready. He hated commuting. The trains…
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By now you’ve read parts 1, 2, and 3 of the “The Beginners Guide to BDSM” series and you know how to prepare for a session. I am particularly fond of the phrase “if you fail to prepare, you’re preparing to fail” when it comes to BDSM, so I figured…
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“Drive.” “Huh?” “Drive!” Suddenly the whooshing and frothing of the automatic car wash machine became a distant echo. It happened so fast. He was just air drumming to the beats booming from the stereo, then within seconds, demands were being hurled his way. “I…” “…want you to slam the accelerator,…
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Every Domme has dealt with time-consuming subs. The kind that want to check in with you multiple times daily, starting when they wake up and ending when they go to bed. Sometimes they even message you while you’re asleep. Boys, if you find yourself acting like this, check yourself. No…
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Often when I’m speaking to people at munches, particularly the newbies, they’ll mention the high cost of specialized gear. It’s true that we can spend hundreds of dollars on a single whip or flogger, let alone a piece of furniture adapted to play. My response is often the same: look…
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You may recognise this amazing person from our discussion on Race Play and the taboo that comes with it. Madame Margherite has a wealth of knowledge and experience with race play and many other kinks, especially animal and pet play. The best part is she loves to share the knowledge…
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When someone mentions Paris, what do you think of? The Eiffel Tower? The Louvre? Good food? Maybe even romance? Well I have something new for you to add to that list. From now on, when you think of Paris, you’ll think of Inanna Justice. Originally from the United States, Inanna…
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Welcome back to “The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. Last week I dropped part one of this series and I talked about the importance of Safe Words and Safe Actions. Great place to start! So now, you and your partner (romantic or otherwise) have to decided to explore the world of…
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