The BDSM community is all too often misunderstood and misrepresented in the world of Hollywood film and the sitcom. They really shoot hilariously wide of the mark sometimes, while other times its harder to draw amusement from their typecasting. Sometimes we’re Satanists, other times it is assumed that we’re all…
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Whether you’re new to the BDSM and kink scene or you’ve been around for years, it’s always an exciting prospect to meet up with others that share the same interests as you. At the same time, it can be a nerve-wracking experience putting yourself out there, especially if you don’t…
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We here at FemFetFed spend an awful lot of time advocating for the continued empowerment of women everywhere. Admittedly, however, as of late we’ve devoted much of our focus to emphasising the raw power of Dommes such as TS Desire, Miss Nera Skye et al. Today that’s going to change,…
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When you first started looking into the world of BDSM and Domination what kind of female images did you see? I know I saw women in stunning outfits (normally leather or latex) in a very strong, controlling pose and they were normally brandishing a whip. This was the “ultimate ideal”…
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I started wearing my moms and my sisters’ clothes from a very young age, could have even been as young as 9. I’d no idea what I was doing, or what the meaning of it was, but I remember the first time I got hard was when I was wearing…
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We’ve all called out for more acceptance of the BDSM and kink scene in conventional society. While playing with the “taboo” is always fun, there’s a massive stigma and a lot of kink-shaming going on in regular society. We’ve even seen cases where women get told “they were asking for…
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Zapping When the superior zaps the submissive with an electric wand. The feeling of being shocked with electricity can make them lose all control. Zentai A zentai suit is a skin-tight garment that covers the entire body. Zentai is most commonly made using nylon/spandex blends. Zit popping People find it pleasurable. It can be…
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Yawning This fetish is really about the mouth as a yawn allows you to see right inside it. Vore and other mouth-related fetishes will also be enjoyed by yawning fans. Yeastiality A fetish for having sex with baked goods. Yoga pants The tighter the fit, the greater the arousal. Either…
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Xenophilia Few people will have xenophobia and xenophilia at the same time: the former is dislike or fear of foreigners while the latter is an intense desire to form a very special kind of union with them. Some references made from Metro.co.uk A-Z Have we missed your favourite fetish? Comment…
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WAM Short for Wet and Messy. And as the name suggests, it’s a fetish for getting people wet and messy through the use of food and/or drink – think custard, cream and other messy products. WAM is also known as food play or sploshing. Wedding Fetish A bride may be…
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Vampirism Sexual attraction to vampires, or people pretending to be vampires. Veil fetish Veils are fetishised not just as an item of clothing but what they represent: think burkas, harem veils or bridal veils. Velvet fetish Fetish for velvet clothing or items. The feeling and texture of this material can…
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Uniforms Play that employs uniform clothing such as police, nurse, and student uniforms. These pieces of clothing enhance role playing and allow participating parties to really get into the scene. Upskirt Fetish for viewing up a Woman’s skirt, however doing this in public or filming up a Woman’s skirt without…
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Taphephilia Arousal from being buried alive. It’s best done on a fantasy basis as the real thing can be incredibly dangerous. Technophilia Used to describe people who quite like owning PlayStations and iPhones, but as a sexual paraphilia, it’s when people want to use their vibrating controllers for sexual activity.…
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Sadomasochism The combination of sadism and masochism. The former is when you get turned on by inflicting pain; the latter when you get turned on by receiving it. Salirophilia When you’re aroused by dishevelling or soiling your sexual partner. That might mean covering them in filth, smearing their makeup or…
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Resistance play Resistance play is a very common fantasy, and it’s a subset of what’s known as Rough Body Play or RBP for short. RBP is about a stylised confrontation between a ‘bottom’ and a ‘top’ in which the latter overpowers the former, who’s pretending they don’t want to be…
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Queefing The clear and obvious distinction is that a fart is gas coming out of your butt and queef describes the lil sound of air rushing out of your vagina.” Queening Or facesitting. A sexual practice in which a person sits or hovers over a partner’s face fully clothed, in…
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Paypig A submissive, almost always male, who has consented to financial servitude towards his Mistress. Phallophilia The urge to have sex with men who have unusually large penises. Pecattiphilia Sexual arousal from doing things you believe to be sinful – so if you’re a Christian that might mean any act…
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Objectum Sexuality It’s a strong attraction to specific inanimate objects, and was made famous by Erika Eiffel when she discussed her marriage to the Eiffel Tower. Amanda Liberty has also spoken of her ‘romantic feelings’ for the Statue of Liberty. It appears in fiction, too – Quasimodo loved nothing better than to…
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Nail Fetish The sound of them tapping on a hard surface, the shape of them can send a submissive into overdrive . Narratophilia Where you get off on hearing sexual or pornographic stories or terms, either spoken by a partner or via recorded or live media. The fetish is specifically…
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Macro fetish A close cousin of macrophilia, which is a fetish for giants, macro fetish is a fetish for sexual partners who are much bigger than you – not necessarily giants, but people who are much taller or much heavier than you. Maid training A fetish where a submissive person,…
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