Whether you’re new to the BDSM and kink scene or you’ve been around for years, it’s always an exciting prospect to meet up with others that share the same interests as you. At the same time, it can be a nerve-wracking experience putting yourself out there, especially if you don’t…
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We here at FemFetFed spend an awful lot of time advocating for the continued empowerment of women everywhere. Admittedly, however, as of late we’ve devoted much of our focus to emphasising the raw power of Dommes such as TS Desire, Miss Nera Skye et al. Today that’s going to change,…
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We’ve all called out for more acceptance of the BDSM and kink scene in conventional society. While playing with the “taboo” is always fun, there’s a massive stigma and a lot of kink-shaming going on in regular society. We’ve even seen cases where women get told “they were asking for…
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Zapping When the superior zaps the submissive with an electric wand. The feeling of being shocked with electricity can make them lose all control. Zentai A zentai suit is a skin-tight garment that covers the entire body. Zentai is most commonly made using nylon/spandex blends. Zit popping People find it pleasurable. It can be…
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Uniforms Play that employs uniform clothing such as police, nurse, and student uniforms. These pieces of clothing enhance role playing and allow participating parties to really get into the scene. Upskirt Fetish for viewing up a Woman’s skirt, however doing this in public or filming up a Woman’s skirt without…
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Taphephilia Arousal from being buried alive. It’s best done on a fantasy basis as the real thing can be incredibly dangerous. Technophilia Used to describe people who quite like owning PlayStations and iPhones, but as a sexual paraphilia, it’s when people want to use their vibrating controllers for sexual activity.…
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Sadomasochism The combination of sadism and masochism. The former is when you get turned on by inflicting pain; the latter when you get turned on by receiving it. Salirophilia When you’re aroused by dishevelling or soiling your sexual partner. That might mean covering them in filth, smearing their makeup or…
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Resistance play Resistance play is a very common fantasy, and it’s a subset of what’s known as Rough Body Play or RBP for short. RBP is about a stylised confrontation between a ‘bottom’ and a ‘top’ in which the latter overpowers the former, who’s pretending they don’t want to be…
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Paypig A submissive, almost always male, who has consented to financial servitude towards his Mistress. Phallophilia The urge to have sex with men who have unusually large penises. Pecattiphilia Sexual arousal from doing things you believe to be sinful – so if you’re a Christian that might mean any act…
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Objectum Sexuality It’s a strong attraction to specific inanimate objects, and was made famous by Erika Eiffel when she discussed her marriage to the Eiffel Tower. Amanda Liberty has also spoken of her ‘romantic feelings’ for the Statue of Liberty. It appears in fiction, too – Quasimodo loved nothing better than to…
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