Lee’s phone pinged with a message from ‘The Boss‘. It was his nickname for his partner, Andrea. “Having drinks with the girls, will be back at 8:30. Love you.” He breathed a sigh of relief. That gave him plenty of time to get dinner ready. He hated commuting. The trains…
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By now you’ve read parts 1, 2, and 3 of the “The Beginners Guide to BDSM” series and you know how to prepare for a session. I am particularly fond of the phrase “if you fail to prepare, you’re preparing to fail” when it comes to BDSM, so I figured…
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“Drive.” “Huh?” “Drive!” Suddenly the whooshing and frothing of the automatic car wash machine became a distant echo. It happened so fast. He was just air drumming to the beats booming from the stereo, then within seconds, demands were being hurled his way. “I…” “…want you to slam the accelerator,…
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Every Domme has dealt with time-consuming subs. The kind that want to check in with you multiple times daily, starting when they wake up and ending when they go to bed. Sometimes they even message you while you’re asleep. Boys, if you find yourself acting like this, check yourself. No…
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Discussing Mental Health seems to be one of those things that sadly Dommes just don’t feel comfortable with. There seems to be this unwritten rule that Dominatrices should have perfect mental health. Being in charge of submissive lives means that we are in conscious control. It’s a subconscious guideline that…
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Often when I’m speaking to people at munches, particularly the newbies, they’ll mention the high cost of specialized gear. It’s true that we can spend hundreds of dollars on a single whip or flogger, let alone a piece of furniture adapted to play. My response is often the same: look…
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When someone mentions Paris, what do you think of? The Eiffel Tower? The Louvre? Good food? Maybe even romance? Well I have something new for you to add to that list. From now on, when you think of Paris, you’ll think of Inanna Justice. Originally from the United States, Inanna…
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Welcome back to “The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. Last week I dropped part one of this series and I talked about the importance of Safe Words and Safe Actions. Great place to start! So now, you and your partner (romantic or otherwise) have to decided to explore the world of…
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Some people just naturally ooze confidence and dominance. One look at them and you just know they’re the one who will be taking the lead. Madame Raven is definitely one of those people. One look at those dark, smouldering eyes and you’re under her spell. Pair this with her striking…
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WARNING – This video contains references to racial slurs which could be offensive. A few weeks ago, I posted part I of a chat about racial play and humiliation with four other Dominatrices from the UK, USA and Asia. It was very important for Me to connect with other like-minded…
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The message from his mistress was brief. “1300 High Creek Road. 10pm.” Allan had no idea what she had in mind. He never did. There seemed to be no limit to her imagination and the experiences she dreamed up for him. They had known each other for four years –…
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So… BDSM. You’ve heard the term, you’ve watched 50 Shades of Grey and you’re intrigued. You should be. BDSM is FUN if you’re into it. But what do you need to know to get the most out of this life-altering experience? A lot. But don’t worry, that’s what The Beginner’s…
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WARNING – This post contains references to racial slurs which could be offensive. You might think talking about a taboo fetish promotes that fetish, but it’s actually works the opposite way. In today’s world, fetishes exist in every corner of human sexuality. For the most part, are all welcomed and…
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I’m back! Well that was a LONG wait!! So annoying, but such is nature. If you’ve been following my writing, you’ll know that myself and my partner had been following the Reddit “30Day Sex Challenge”. If you haven’t, I suggest you click the link here and start from the beginning…
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Speaking as a sex worker, is there anything more annoying than being told “Oh, sex work? Content creation? But… like… that’s so easy! Anyone can do that!”? If there is, please let me know! Anyone who creates content knows it takes a lot of time and effort if you value…
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Are you a lost little puppy? Do you need a strict owner to discipline you into behaving? If so, I have just the owner for you. This embodiment of female sexuality will show you where you really belong. And just in case you’re wondering, it’s at her feet! Welcome little…
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Being on my period has been a pain (both figuratively and physically). I’m so eager to get back to my “30 Day Sex Challenge”, that I’ve been researching different ways to make it even more fun! I mentioned before that sometimes my body struggles with anal intercourse. It’s just something…
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I love a Dominant who’s multi-layered in her approach. A bad-ass bitch who commands a room but also knows about the importance of aftercare and how to actually have a conversation. BDSM is so much more than just chains and whips and “torturing” a sub for the pleasure of both…
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Here Kitty, Kitty! When a potential submissive asked if I had seen Kitty Brat’s profile, I admitted that I had not. Then they sent me the link and I realized what I had been missing out on! I love a cute kitty cat, and even more so, I love a…
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Andrew was coming to the end of his three-week secondment to the tights department at Barrington’s department store. He dreaded having to return to the shoe department. It wasn’t that he was unhappy there, it just didn’t give him the same joy that hosiery did. And he was really good…
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