Some kinks can be seen as taboo. We’ve talked about risqué kinks before such as race and religious play. Taboo kinks are something that people on the outside looking in can misconstrue. We’ve seen in the interview Miss Foxx held with many amazing other Dommes, that these kinks, while taboo…
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One part of the kinky community we haven’t focused on too much here at FFFBuzz is the CG/l (Care Giver/little) dynamic. The name is quite self-explanatory. One part of the relationship is the Care Giver/Dominant and the other person is the “Little”/Submissive that receives the care. This care can be…
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I learned how to be a FinDomme firstly through social media, so I didn’t realise or know I was going to end up being part of the BDSM community. Money has always been My priority, and it still is now. It was never my intention to end up in it,…
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Yes people, watching “Bonding”, “Cam” or “Fifty Shades of Grey” on Netflix won’t suddenly make you a Dominatrix or fully fledged submissive. BDSM is much more complicated than that and involves an understanding of the human psychology. 1. So here’s what BDSM actually stands for: Firstly BDSM stands for bondage…
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Last year I went viral when I was casually walking a slave in London. I’d engaged in public humiliation in the BDSM scene a few times before. I’d also been doing various similar things in the vanilla world for many years. To Me public humiliation is just a normal thing…
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Women as a whole deal with more prejudices than their male counterparts. Black Women in particular face more cultural misunderstandings, have far higher judgements and less support to succeed than Western women. It also applies to a Black FemDomme and FinDomme. So what can we learn about tenacity, competition, priorities…
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I was scrolling on My Twitter timeline when I saw this about BDSM slaves. It’s really important for Dommes to realise, even though we might not want to, that ultimately we are fetish providers. Submissives will come to us to explore their kinks and then disappear because they have lives…
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There’s something so delicious about multiple fetishes intertwining to create one amazing experience. A scene that features one fetish is great. Two, amazing! But three or more…Mmmmmmm! Am I greedy? Maybe. But it also may just be that when I find the perfect mix of different fetishes and kinks together…
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BDSM is full of various s-types. What’s an s-type? I’m glad you asked. In a BDSM relationship, the dominant person (or top) is the one that takes the power, authority or control. This control is always given with the consent of everyone involved. The power exchange can last a few…
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Lee’s phone pinged with a message from ‘The Boss‘. It was his nickname for his partner, Andrea. “Having drinks with the girls, will be back at 8:30. Love you.” He breathed a sigh of relief. That gave him plenty of time to get dinner ready. He hated commuting. The trains…
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By now you’ve read parts 1, 2, and 3 of the “The Beginners Guide to BDSM” series and you know how to prepare for a session. I am particularly fond of the phrase “if you fail to prepare, you’re preparing to fail” when it comes to BDSM, so I figured…
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“Drive.” “Huh?” “Drive!” Suddenly the whooshing and frothing of the automatic car wash machine became a distant echo. It happened so fast. He was just air drumming to the beats booming from the stereo, then within seconds, demands were being hurled his way. “I…” “…want you to slam the accelerator,…
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Every Domme has dealt with time-consuming subs. The kind that want to check in with you multiple times daily, starting when they wake up and ending when they go to bed. Sometimes they even message you while you’re asleep. Boys, if you find yourself acting like this, check yourself. No…
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Discussing Mental Health seems to be one of those things that sadly Dommes just don’t feel comfortable with. There seems to be this unwritten rule that Dominatrices should have perfect mental health. Being in charge of submissive lives means that we are in conscious control. It’s a subconscious guideline that…
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Often when I’m speaking to people at munches, particularly the newbies, they’ll mention the high cost of specialized gear. It’s true that we can spend hundreds of dollars on a single whip or flogger, let alone a piece of furniture adapted to play. My response is often the same: look…
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When someone mentions Paris, what do you think of? The Eiffel Tower? The Louvre? Good food? Maybe even romance? Well I have something new for you to add to that list. From now on, when you think of Paris, you’ll think of Inanna Justice. Originally from the United States, Inanna…
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Welcome back to “The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. Last week I dropped part one of this series and I talked about the importance of Safe Words and Safe Actions. Great place to start! So now, you and your partner (romantic or otherwise) have to decided to explore the world of…
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Some people just naturally ooze confidence and dominance. One look at them and you just know they’re the one who will be taking the lead. Madame Raven is definitely one of those people. One look at those dark, smouldering eyes and you’re under her spell. Pair this with her striking…
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WARNING – This video contains references to racial slurs which could be offensive. A few weeks ago, I posted part I of a chat about racial play and humiliation with four other Dominatrices from the UK, USA and Asia. It was very important for Me to connect with other like-minded…
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The message from his mistress was brief. “1300 High Creek Road. 10pm.” Allan had no idea what she had in mind. He never did. There seemed to be no limit to her imagination and the experiences she dreamed up for him. They had known each other for four years –…
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