Wherefore art thou Mistress? For a day is long but the nights are even longer

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Are you looking for the Mistress who will be with you forever and are you having trouble finding Her? It has taken me over 10 years to figure out but i finally figured out 10 easy steps to find your Mistress!

  1. Make sure that you are fully in tune with yourself and your needs as a submissive. Boundaries and limits firstly.
  2. Know exactly what you desire from your forever Mistress and make sure the Mistress you approach is what you want. You can’t change Her or expect Her to change as you are there to serve Her.
  3. Go to different Fetish events and socialise with others. Get to understand how they found their Mistress.
  4. Try different Mistresses but always set out your boundaries first. If you wish to push your limits then do so with caution. Remember if you have done your research then it should be east to trust your Mistress.
  5. Get to know and understand your Mistress and build your sub/Domme relationship. It is mostly about Her and what you can do to please Her.
  6. Remember if you are not comfortable or something isn’t right then being open with Her will allow you both to understand each other on a deeper level.
  7. For some Mistresses, total submission in all aspects of life, can sustain and meet your Mistresses needs and yours. It is good to communicate if this arrangement suits you both.
  8. In front of your Superior, you eat, breathe and live a submissive role. Outside of a Domme/sub relationship is where you can explore more of your dominant tendencies, if you so have them.
  9. Chemistry and respect for each other are important for both of you.
  10. Understand punishment and rewards. Your Mistress will tell you what you get for being good and bad and all treatment will be as you deserve, never to be questioned.

These 10 different things will help you find the Mistress of your dreams. i followed these steps and i now have my forever Mistress so i wish you the upmost success in your future search, remember not to doubt your gut feelings.

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