Are you a lost little puppy? Do you need a strict owner to discipline you into behaving? If so, I have just the owner for you. This embodiment of female sexuality will show you where you really belong. And just in case you’re wondering, it’s at her feet! Welcome little puppies one and all to Mistress Zara. She’s the fiery red head you’ll want to serve. The question is… will you serve correctly, or will you end up in the doghouse?
Exploration and creativity
I’ve said it time and time again; sex should be FUN! It also should be satisfying. Sometimes being left unsatisfied by sex doesn’t mean that you or your partner(s) are bad at it. It just might not be the right kind of sex that you need. Mistress Zara found herself in this situation years ago. She was unfulfilled by vanilla sex, so she decided to explore the world of kink to see if that made a difference. Once she dipped her toe in, there was no going back! Being easily bored, kink allows Mistress Zara to change things up and play around with sex and sexuality to enjoy a more fulfilling experience.
There is no standard, generic way of being a Domme. Mainstream media may portray all Dominatrixes to be leather or latex clad women brandishing whips and cuffs, but that simply isn’t the case. While a lot of Dominatrixes do enjoy wearing leather and latex, (I mean, why wouldn’t you? It looks amazing!) they’re not as basic as the media would make you believe. Creativity is key to making yourself stand out to subs but also key to your own enjoyment of being a Domme. Mistress Zara loves the creativity she gets to express while creating a session. She enjoys creating each session and making each one personal to the individual sub.
Natural Dominance and adoration
A favourite of Mistress Zara’s is pet/puppy play. Not only does she love role play and creating a different character for sessions, she also laps up the adoration. Any of us that have a dog or puppy know that they need a lot of training – but most of all they’re full of adoration and eagerness to please. These are perfect qualities for a submissive. Mistress Zara can enjoy humiliating and degrading her subs while training them, and yet, their adoration and eagerness to please her will grow. They long to hear those words; “Good puppy”.
Mistress Zara is a Dominant woman in her daily life, not just on Twitter or in a session. She’s very aware of exactly what she wants and, over the years, has changed the way she communicates this as her confidence and self-assurance has grown. Mistress Zara can be bossy and very strict with her subs, but she does all this in a calm and controlled tone. Isn’t that always the most intimidating? I know I had that one teacher in school who never raised their voice and that teacher was the one kids respected and behaved for most.
Puppy appraisals are a thing
One thing I really love about Mistress Zara’s style of dominating is that she regularly checks in with her Subs. She asks them how they think they’re doing with their servitude. This is a great idea because they both get to evaluate their time together, make amendments and grow in their D/S relationship. Yes, this is really important even if you’re not in a romantic relationship with your sub.
The Sub gets to think about ways they can better their servitude and whether there are things they’d like to change with their Domme. Mistress Zara also likes her subs to set themselves a target for their own self-improvement. This leaves both the Sub happier (because they have something to work towards) but also the Domme is left with a sub who is happy, healthy, excited to serve, and isn’t reliant on constant instruction. Because, let’s face it, a spontaneous gift or gesture of servitude is ALWAYS welcome!
I think Mistress Zara has a great mix of Dominance, control, and consideration for her subs which is very admirable! I’m definitely going to start practicing some of her good habits! And if that wasn’t enough, she does all of this while looking drop dead gorgeous! I can totally see why subs would want to belong to her puppy farm!
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